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These are questions a slave can ask a Dominant before going into his or her collar.
These questions should be asked to the dominant by the slave / submissive and answers should be written down by the interviewer or a third party.
Even if you know the answer to the question still ask the dominant unless they have already answered it in a question within this document (which happens often).
1) What do you expect from your slave?
2) What can the slave expect from you?
- What a Slave means to you?
- What a Submissive means to you?
- What a Dominant means to you?
- What a Master or Mistress is to you?
- What do you feel Edge Living is?
- What do you feel Edge Play is?
4) How far into slavery do you expect your slave to go?
5) What if things do not work out?
- Where does the slave go?
- What happens to the slave?
- Who makes the decision if the slave needs to leave?
6) How will you keep consistency in the relationship with the slave?
7) Do you want to be emotionally involved with you Slave?
- If so to what extent?
8.) What protocols do you want your slave to follow?
9) Do you plan to have intercourse or other sexual acts with your slave beyond BDSM scenes?
10) Who will be using the slave and how?
- Who will the slave interact with?
- Who will the slave have sex with?
- Who will the slave submit to?
- Who will the slave scene with?
11) Are you familiar with Pony Play (Slave should add his/her own kinks here)? Do you plan on doing that with the slave?
12) How do you expect your slave to contribute to the household?
13) How many slaves are currently in the house?
- Do you expect that number to grow or shrink?
14) How will you enforce the rules with your slave?
15) How long have you been interested in the lifestyle?
- How long have you been active in the BDSM community?
- How active are you in the BDSM community?
16) Are you naturally dominant?
17) Do you have a mentor that you are active with?
- How did you learn to be a Dominant in BDSM?
18) Where will your slave sleep?
19) What books would you recommend for your slave to study in order to learn more about you and the way you live your BDSM life?
- Are there any books you identify most with?
20) Are you looking for this slave to be permanent?
- If so, what happens when you and the slave grow older?
21) How many slaves have you owned?
- Why did each end up leaving?
- Are you still in contact with your previous slaves?
- Can they be used as a reference?
22) How many Masters or Mistresses have you had?
23) What is your definition of owned?
24) When do you expect your slave to start in service?
25) Do you have children?
26) What is your favorite type of scene?
27) How did you learn how to use the toys?
- What are your favorite toys?
28) How often do you like to scene with you slave?
- How will you be consistent with that?
29) (Optional) What is your experience, knowledge, and involvement with the Gorean lifestyle?
30) What do you think the person you are considering self identifies as? Slave, Submissive, or Switch?
31) Does the salve’s religion have to be the same as yours?
- Will the slave be allowed time to practice his or her religion?
- What part of your religion will the slave need to partake in?
32) Please rate yourself on a scale of 1 –10 (10 being most extreme) as a sadist.
33) Please rate what you think the person you are considering would b e on a scale of 1-10 (10 being the most extreme) as a masochist.
34) What if your slave does not meet all your BDSM needs?
- How will you fulfill those needs?
35) What if you do not meet all the slave’s BDSM needs?
- Will your slave be allowed to fulfill those needs in other ways?
- If so how?
36) Will the slave be allowed personal time?
37) What about any possessions the slave has?
- Who will keep the possessions if the slave leaves?
38) Will the slave be allowed to visit friends?
- Can friends visit your slave?
39) Is there anything you would like to add or expand on?
IF MARRIED ASK THESE QUESTIONS:
1) Would your spouse have partial ownership?
2) Can your spouse ask the slave to leave either directly or through you?
3) What can the slave expect from your spouse?
4) What is the hierarchy in your house?
5) How many Slaves has you spouse owned?
- How many slaves have the both of you owned together?
6) How many Mistresses or Masters has your spouse had?
7) Does your Spouse have Children?
8.) What involvement will your slave have with your spouse?
9) Where does your spouse sleep?
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